Over the past several months Betsy hasn’t been feeling well. She couldn’t quite pin down why, so working with her primary care practitioner, Rosie Ayerle, Betsy began a series of diagnostic tests and exams to identify the problem.
In early May, Betsy was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and referred to Charles Boice, M.D. After an initial consultation and examination on May 8, Dr. Boise recommended Betsy undergo surgery, to remove the offending organ, which would then be followed by chemotherapy.
Betsy presented herself for surgery at the Washington Hospital Center - Washington, DC on May 17. Though originally scheduled for 2:00 PM, due to the length of time spent in surgery prior to Betsy’s, Dr. Boice was unable to begin Betsy’s procedure until 9:00PM.
He estimated that her procedure would take approximately four hours and , true to his word, shortly after 1:00AM he appeared in the waiting area to let family members know the outcome.
The surgery went as planned; however, Betsy’s cancer was not localized to the ovaries, but rather is more diffused in the abdomen. Dr. Boice will have different tissue samples analyzed so he can determine the best chemotherapy protocol to employ. He hopes to begin chemotherapy before Betsy is discharged from the hospital.
It was well after 2:00 AM Sunday morning May 18th when I got home.
I, Andrew and Kevin visited Betsy later, early in the afternoon. We arrived at her room shortly after she did. It turns out the staff in the post anesthesia care unit opted to keep her intubated through the night .
When we arrived, the PACU staff, for whom Betsy had high praise, was just departing her room. They asked Betsy to assess her pain (on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being the least),which Betsy gauged as 3. At first I thought that the self administered morphine may have been coming into play, but Betsy assured me that her pain wasn’t bad.
For well over a week leading up to her surgery Betsy hadn’t slept well. So we didn't stay too long in favor of letting her catch up on her sleep so her body could begin t0 recover from surgery.
It was obvious to me that she was feeling so much better and hearing her say so had us leaving feeling better as well.
Betsy knows that I'm blogging about her battle with cancer and she's going to be reading this. So if you want to wish her well this is a good place to do that.
Dr. Boice will have a better handle on things on Monday and as I learn more I'll post updates here . So come back regularly and please keep Betsy in your prayers.
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Hey all, just wanted to let you know you are all in my prayers and that i hope you feel better real soon!!!
-Kristen Perna
Holy Cow!!!! We are shocked. Let Greg and I know of anything you need us to do. (including cutting the grass in Cambridge--although I will be video taping that for posterity!). Seriously, though, Betsy, Tom, Andrew, and Kevin, you are all in our thoughts and prayers for a quick recovery. Thanks for the blog. I have copied it to my email so both of us can be informed. Take care and know that your friends are with you through all of this.
Debbie and Greg
Hi Bets, Tom,Andrew and Kevin,
You are all in our prayers. Glad to hear Bets is feeling better today. Let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Hope to see all of you real soon. Our love to all, may God bless...T.
As we all know, prayer is a powerful healer, so along with the great medical staff, and her GREAT husband and sons, that should have Betsy well on the way to beating this thing. Know that I will have everyone in the Virginia community rooting AND praying for all.
-Lin
Tom, Drew and Kevin,
This is great! Thanks for keeping us posted on what's going on with Betsy. Please know you're all in my prayers.
Peg Waters
Youth Minister CHA
Bets, Tom, Andrew and Kevin,
You're in our thoughts and prayers, as always. Our love to all - please don't hesitate if you need anything.
Fluffy and Frank
Thanks for letting us know Tom. You know our prayers are with you all.
There is certainly no better husband and father to care for Betsy and your sons at this time. Though I've never met Betsy, law enforcement wives play a special role is our lives so I'm sure I know her is some ways.
The opening words of the Mass say it best...The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do directly for you.
Shalom!
Chris
Betsy, Tom, Andrew, and Kevin. Ok, it's certainly a shock to all of us. But we hope that by sharing this journey with us you will find comfort in knowing that you have so many prayers, and much love coming from far and wide as Betsy beats this!
Much love to you all,
Steph, Meghan, and Bruce
It is nice to hear Betsy is feeling better. If you need anything, let me know and I will be there...dinner, a ride, etc...
Kevin, If things get rough at school, come and tell me so we can get it worked out.
In my prayers,
Sandy Bonilla
wishing you all strength in family and faith in the power of medical science.....many prayers from Colorado right now, to you all....and they truly are just about the best prayers since, at our altitude, we're already a bit closer to heaven....
our warmest thoughts are with you now,
-jo and Bob
Tom and family please know that all of the ICES personnel wish you a speedy recovery and pray for you and your family. Tom you know me and my own personal battle with cancer, so from personal note, you need anything at all whatever no matter what time day or night please do not hesitate to call me.
All of ICES
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING MORE THAN EVER
Scott
Betsy, TR, Andrew, & Kevin,
I am so sorry you are having to deal with this disease. It seems inevitable that each of us will have to deal with cancer directly at some point in our lives. NOT what we thought we were signing up for, is it? But with the tremendous advances in science, you have the best chance in history of beating this thing. The greater focus and intensity it brings to something you already knew - that family and friends are the most important parts of our lives - is a gift. Through this ordeal, you will spread love farther and more deeply than you ever imagined, and that will last forever - far longer than the cancer or even any of our lives. I hope this realization helps you through the days to come and all that they bring. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Clyde
Tom, I will surely pary for your wife, and you, and your family. Hang in there buddy, we are here for you. Joe O'Connell
TR, I am so sorry to hear about Betsy's illness, but glad to hear that she is out of surgery and ready to start the healing process. I know that with your loving support and that of your sons, her recovery will be swift. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Sooz
Betsy and Tom
Our prayers are extended to you during this most difficult. I know you are a family of great faith as we witnessed at CHA with you during our friendship. Know that we are sending you all of our good thoughts and energy in the coming weeks. We will continue to lift you up from North Carolina:) The Lloyd Family, Jean, John, Shannon and Patrick
hey betsy, I've got 15 benedictine sisters praying for you, I don't recall their web site but you can find them if you google benedictine sisters of baltimore they have pretty good connections with the higher powers. brother john
Thank you for letting us know what's happening with Betsy, Tom. We all wish her a speedy recovery from the surgery and patience and strength for the chemotherapy to follow. Please let us know if there's anything we can do for you.
Betsy,
Please let me know if there is anything you need. Of course, you and your family will be in my family's prayers. Let me know if you need any nursing care or a meal (or ANYTHING!). Tom, thanks for keeping us updated. Take care of yourselves.
Angela Galoppo
Tom and Betsy
You are in my prayers. I have a friend that has been battling ovarian cancer. If you would like to contact her, let me know.
Please also let me know if there is anything you need.
Diane Filo
Betsy, Tom, Andrew and Kevin, you are all in my prayers at this time. Betsy, I am so glad that you are feeling better, if there is anything you need please don't hesitate to call. I love you- Mom
Hey Betsy! The girls of Parole are pulling for you! Our hearts are with you and we have sent lots and lots of prayers your way as well...we promise to behave while you are gone...if there is ANYTHING you need to have done or anything you want you know to call us and ask....we are glad you came through surgery like the champion hot shot you are....Mari, Maria, and Meghan...the 3 M's....
Hi Bets,
Sounds like you are in good hands...I want to thank Tom for creating this blog....we don't feel so far away when we can get the daily updates. We will continue to pray for your speedy recovery....we love you, T.
Mom. Keep fighting. I am glad that you are feeling better. You will be out of there before you know it. I know that you can beat this. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you
Kevin
Betsy and family, You are definitely in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sure you know that the whole CHA family is praying for you and will be there if you need anything. We are a powerful force. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Blessings, Kelly and Rob Miller
Hey there
I just got off the phone with my friend,Lynda Wise who has been battling this disease. Betsy, when time permits, call me and I will give you her contact information.
She would love to talk with you and called me before leaving for a trip.
Diane Filo
Betsy,
I learned today from Suzanne of your ordeal these past weeks. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Janice Bolten
Mrs. Rekus,
Mr. Rekus and I are pretty good friends and speak on pretty much a daily basis. (I refer to him as Mr. Rekus out of respect and tradition) As you know Mr. Rekus is known to tell life stories. I've heard quite a bit about you and know you are a wonderful and strong person. I would know that of course just by the fact that you've put up with Mr. Rekus for so many years. (kidding of course)
I digress a bit, but the point is I do feel very close to your family. I hope you feel better soon and my thoughts and prayers will be for you and your family.
Respectfully,
Alex Dippel
Good morning Betsy!
Another day bright and early at Parole Health Center...and of all things I never thought after I left the surgical floors at GW that I would be praying and hoping for gas....so here it is! My wish for you today is that you pass all that hot air and get on with the important thing of getting better!! Celebrating gas used to be a way of life when I was working the floors and the ICU in particular...so I know just how much of a relief it is! Amazing how such a perceived rude gesture can be so much of a blessed event! And to Suzanne...many thanks for what you are doing....it means so much to all of us...we just wish we could all be there to help cheer you on....
Is there anything we can get you or anything you need? Let us know when you are up for your favorite treats!
Well back to work! Clinic awaits! BTW....I wonder if my friend Fran Thompson still works in the Recovery Room there at WHC...top notch nurse and one of my early heroes....
Fondly, your sharpshooting staff....
Inez, Sue, Debbie, Meghan, Mari and Maria...
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